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Hope and Despair
Do Not DespairHopelessness and despair sometimes creep into a person’s consciousness because he does not sufficiently believe in the power of repentance. As the prophet taught us: As long as a person is alive, he can still return to God. There is therefore no reason for a person to despair as a result of of his sins.
“What shall a living man complain? Each man for his sins. Let us search and examine our ways” (Lamentations 3:39–40). This verse speaks about a living individual, [and tells us] that he has no reason to complain about his sins – saying that since he sinned he has no way to repair what he did and he will not be able to attain purity. For as long as he is still alive he should not give up hope, because despair is not justified unless a person died in his sinfulness. But while he is still alive, at any time or moment he is able to seek out and find a cure for his sickness, through something that applies equally to all of us. “Let us search and examine our ways, and return to the Lord” (Lamentations 3:39–40). “The gates of repentance are always open” (Devarim Rabba 2:12), and we are obligated to “lift up our heart with our hands” (see Lamentations 3:41), so that our hearts should be given and handed over to our hands
There is no reason in the world for despair. No matter how low a person’s spiritual level sinks, there is always hope for him.
The principle is that it is forbidden for a person to make himself lose hope. Even if someone is a simple person and does not know at all how to study Torah, or if he is in a place where he is not able to study Torah, nevertheless, even in his simplicity he must strengthen himself in fear of God and simple service [of God] appropriate for his level…. Even someone who is, God forbid, at the lowest level – the All-Merciful One should save us from this – even someone who is placed in the depths of hell – the All-Merciful One should save us from this – since he holds himself where he is, he should still have hope of repenting and returning to Him, may He be blessed.
Further reading: Read the story of Rabbi Elazar ben Dordaya and his “last minute” repentance in A Concise Guide to the Sages, p. 464.
The nation of Israel was formed specifically after everyone had given up hope on the possibility that our patriarch Abraham and our matriarch Sarah would have a child. Then Isaac was born, and from him came the nation of Israel. This teaches us to believe that we should never give up hope.
The entire formation of the Israelite nation was after complete despair, that “Abraham and Sarah were old” (Genesis 18:11),